quick, to your panic stations!

ACK! Mrs. Darcy is all ready to be sewn together--I already did the shoulder seams--and I am at a complete loss with the sleeves. I don't have a blind clue how to sew them in, even with Knitting for Dummies by my side. It's too hard, I can't do it. Maybe I should leave her as a button front vest . . . Please, my knitting brethren, recommend a resource with clear info on setting in sleeves. My sanity is at stake here!

As a side note, I've got 5 extra balls of Elsebeth Lavold Classic AL (50% baby alpaca, 50% merino wool) in slate grey if anyone is interested in taking them off my hands . . . I'll put them in my Ravelry stash later today.